01 Dec The gifts hospices provide funeral homes
Articles about the care and support that hospices provide families can be easily found. But it’s difficult to find an article from a funeral director’s perspective about the gifts hospices provide – although all of us know the immense value provide as part of their commitment to the families they serve.
Explaining when it’s time
One of the most difficult conversations a hospice chaplain or social worker must have is the one telling the family it is time to make cremation or burial arrangements (if they haven’t already). Some families are simply not ready – and will never be ready – to make that important call. Hospices professionals know how much more difficult it is when the family waits until after their loved one passes to make a decision, especially for someone who passes at home. By encouraging families to make arrangements in advance, hospice professionals help prepare families.
An advocate for the families
There are times when a family needs an extra voice to assist them in taking the first step to make arrangements. It’s not uncommon for hospice professionals to sit by a loved one’s side when they start making cremation arrangements. Sometimes it’s as little as dialing the phone for them. Other times they will stay on the entire arrangement call, supporting the family through every step.
Making the death notification call
When a loved one passes, someone has to call the funeral home or cremation provider to inform them that the death occurred. Hospice professional will make this difficult call on behalf of the family. In the case of home deaths in Texas and California, if the loved one is under hospice care, it is the hospice nurse or physician who will pronounce the death. Until this occurs, the funeral home or cremation service provider cannot take the patient into our care so hospice involvement is critical.
Helping during the transition
In a situation when someone dies at home, there are a lot of variables the funeral home or cremation service provider needs to know. The size of the deceased person, where they are located in the house, what “obstacles” might be encountered at the home (such as winding stairways) are just a couple of the things that can make taking someone into our care more difficult. Hospice professionals play a huge role in helping us make sure we can provide a dignified transition by alerting the service provider so they can be prepared.
Another wonderful gift hospice professionals provide is comfort and assistance to the family as the body is removed. It can be an awkward situation for families, especially when they are at a home. Frequently they do not know if they should stay with their loved one or whether to leave. Frequently, the caring hospice professionals will keep the family company in another room so the funeral professionals can prepare the body for removal.
Although National Hospice Month has come to a close, I want to thank (again) all the wonderful hospice professionals who take such incredible care of the families we serve.
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